Life is hard
Happy people see difficult times as a passing phase, they take over the situation and do what they can to change it.
Nobody can be trusted
Doubting in small doses it’s ok, believing in the good of people is always a plus. But unhappy people don’t trust anyone and are prevented from making new friends and connections with people.
They focus only on the negative
They only see the negative side of things and that stops them from seeing all of the beauty around them
Compare themselves to others and harbor jealousy
Unhappy people believe someone else’s good fortune steals from their own.Always comparing to everyone else.
They try to control everything around them
There’s a difference between control and striving to achieve our goals. The key is to be oriented towards achieving your goals, but also let bad things happen as they’re part of life
They fear and worry about the future
They only think about the worst outcome, never look on the bright side like happy people. Everyone fears for what the future might hold, but they don’t let that stop them from living a healthy life.
Living in the past
Unhappy people live in the past and only talk about it, when they run out of conversation topics they turn over to gossiping and commenting on other people’s lives.